
| Location | Shropshire |
| Age | 0 |
| Cause of Death | Still Birth |
| Date of Birth | 07/08/2007 |
| Date of Death | 07/08/2007 |
| Visitors | 26,494 since 15/08/2007 |
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***TO ALL OUR GTS FRIENDS... THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR YOUR CONTINUED SUPPORT...***
(¯`J´¯)I want you to know that although my candles to you
`•.¸.•´are few & far between sometimes, you & your angels
¸.•´¸.•´¨) ¸.•*¨)are forever in my thoughts. xXx
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`•.Jack James
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† Jack James was born in Shrewsbury 11 days overdue on Tuesday August 7th 2007 at 19.53 weighing
8lb 12oz. Unfortunately he was born sleeping but he was and still is perfect. His death is
unexplained so he had to have a post mortem. We got the results on September 24th and all that was
found was an infection in the placenta. Everything else was perfectly normal, it doesnt make any
sense.
I had the perfect pregnancy with Jack. He never gave me any morning sickness, just back ache and
swollen ankles in the last couple of months. I loved being pregnant and feeling his every move. His
favourite time of day was when i was in the bath or had just got into bed ready to go to sleep. I
remember the first time i actually saw him move, we were listening to Justin Timberlake - My Love.
He loved to play about. He was always kicking his dads head when we were snuggled on the sofa in the
last few weeks. I actually looked forward to going to my antenatal appointments because it meant i
got to hear my little mans heartbeat again. It was always so fast, he sounded so healthy. How i wish
i had now recorded that sound...
I was so happy to hear i had had a baby boy. Since i was about 5 i had said i wanted my first born
to be a boy called Jack after my great grandad. I was so close to being granted my life long wish. I
will never understand why he was snatched away from me at the very end leaving me to say goodbye
when i should have been saying hello...
It was nearly half past 8 at night and a doctor just turned around, looked at my mum and said "I'm
sorry"... I didnt take it all in at first, i was in shock. I didnt cry until the Thursday morning
when Mum was bathing Jack.
We had his christening on the Wednesday. It was bittersweet. Jack James Tipton, gone to play with
the angels.
On the Friday, after spending nearly four days with Jack, i had to say goodbye... Jack was taken
away and i was wheeled out of the hospital and got into the car. I should have been putting Jacks
car seat in there, but i was leaving with a folder containing his tags, hand and footprints, a lock
of his hair and sands leaflets with empty arms and a broken heart.
We had the little mans funeral on September 26th at midday. As we entered the church a single black
butterfly came in with us and stayed with us throughout the service. Jack is now my little butterfly
flying high in heavens skies... He looked so small in the hearse before all of his flowers were put
in with him. His Grandad Tipton did a great job of carrying him in and out of church for us. We had
just family at the cemetery and every one placed a white rose with a personal message with Jack. He
is buried next to my friends little girl - Tegan Harrison - who died shortly after him (She too has
a site on here.) so you could say he has a little girlfriend!
He has his daddys nose and his mummys lips. A beautiful baby boy.
He will live on forever in our hearts and shall never be forgotten. He is my guardian angel, my
life, and nothing, nobody will ever replace him... I may go on to have more babies in the future but
i will always have one in a grave and that is one too many. I just want Jack James back... I need
him...†
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To the world he is just one, but to me he is my whole world...
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If tears could build a stairway,
and memories a lane,
I’d walk right up to heaven,
and bring you home again... LOVE YOU MONKEY! xXx
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Ten tiny fingers, Ten tiny toes
Full pouting lips, Cute button nose
Our perfect baby, Who nobody knows...
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Jacks fundrasing page - http://www.tommys.org/jackjames
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August 2008...
Now i know my mum is going to cry when she reads this but i just wanted to take some time out to
thank her via Jacks GTS site for everything she has done for me and Jack over the last year. I
cannot imagine anyone who would have wanted to swap places with her the night i gave birth to Jack.
She stayed with me the whole time we were together in hospital and she stayed so strong cos not only
was she grieving for Jack but she was grieving for me too, even though i may be 23 now, i am still
her baby!!! I just want to thank Nanny L for the endless candles she leaves Jack, for the times she
talks about him without me having to bring him up first, for going to see him whenever she can, for
proudly displaying his photos all over her house, for the little garden she has made for him at the
top of hers and most of all for loving Jack just as much as she would of done had he been here today
with us... xXx
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Beautiful grandson
My darling little grandson, you are so perfect in every way, I was with your mummy when you were born and I will treasure that forever. I will love you and your mummy for always, and now you are safe with your great great grandad Jack
With all my love from nanny Lloyd xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
i love you
i loved jack from the moment his mummy told me she was having him. he was always called bump! we alway knew he was going to be a boy from how he kicked.
i love you jack and i always will.
i love you tigs
aunty june XXXXXxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
You will be sadly missed by us all.
You will always be with us in our hearts and thoughts.
All my love
xxx Amy xxx
to jake mum your son is so cute i wish i could take the pain away but i know one can he will be sadley missed by you allxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Perfect Boy
Its such a shame you had to leave us so soon. I know deep down you have gone to a better place and will be well looked after up in heaven x
We didnt get enough time with you but you will always be in our hearts xxx Lots of Love xxx Claire
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The cord xxxxxxxxxxxx
We are connected
My child and I, by
An invisible cord
Not seen by the eye
It's not like the cord
That connects us 'til birth
This cord can't be seen
By any on Earth
This cord does it's work
Right from the start
It binds us together
Attached to my heart
I know that it's there
Though no one can see
The invisible cord
From my child to me
The strength of this cord
Is hard to describe
It can't be destroyed
It can't be denied
It's stronger than any cord
Man could create
It withstands the test
Can hold any weight
And though you are gone
Though you're not here with me, The cord is still there
But no one can see
It pulls at my heart
I am bruised...I am sore
But this cord is my lifeline
As never before.
I am thankful that God
Connects us this way
A mother and child
Death can't take it away
A letter from heaven
To my dearest family – some things I’d like to say,
But first of all to let you know that I’ve arrived ok,
I’m writing this from heaven; here I dwell with God above,
There are no more tears of sadness – just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy because I am out of sight,
Remember that I am with you – morning, noon and night.
The day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up, hugged me and said – “I welcome you.
It’s good to have you back again – you were missed while you were gone,
As for your family – they’ll be here later on.
I need you here badly – you are part of my plan,
There’s so much we have to do to help our mortal man.”
God gave me a list of things that he wanted me to do,
And foremost on the list was to watch and care for you.
When you lie in bed at night, the day’s chores put to flight,
God and I are close to you in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on earth and all those missing years,
Because you are only human they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry – it does relieve the pain,
Remember there would be no flowers unless there was the rain.
I wish I could tell, all that God had planned,
If I were to tell you – you wouldn’t understand.
But one thing is for certain though my life on earth is o’er,
I’m closer to you now than I ever was before.
There are many rocky roads ahead and many hills to climb,
But together we can do it taking it one day at a time.
It was always your philosophy and I would like it too,
That as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.
If you can help somebody who’s in sorrow or in pain,
Then you can say to God at night – my day was not in vain.
So if you meet somebody who’s sad and feeling low,
Just lend a hand to pick them up as on your way you go.
When you’re walking down the street and you’ve got me on your mind,
I’m walking in your footsteps only half a step behind,
And when it’s time for you to go from that body to be free,
Remember you’re not going – but coming home to me!
xxx
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